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Divorce Decision Maker Mastery

Divorce Decision Maker Mastery

GOING THROUGH OR THINKING OF HAVING A DIVORCE?

Is your divorce affecting your well-being? Explore ways to regain peace and stability in your life.

going through or thinking of having a divorce?

Is your divorce affecting your well-being? Explore ways to regain peace and stability in your life.

Uncertain about the next steps in your divorce?

You don't have to go through it alone.

Stories of Healing & Hope

Watch and listen to our clients' experiences and testimonials

Wayne Mai

Nicole Kellog

Tracy Butterfield

Brad Moehlig

Why Most Fail To Be Empowered

In Divorce Navigation?

Lack of

Direction

Without a clear roadmap, it's easy to feel lost and unsure of what to do next. Many divorcees struggle to find the right direction, which can slow down the process and cause unnecessary stress.

Overwhelming

Emotions

Divorce is a stressful and emotional experience, and managing intense emotions can be exhausting. This often leads to feeling overwhelmed, which can make it difficult to navigate the divorce process.

Unrealistic

Expectations

Divorce is rarely easy, and it's important to have realistic expectations about the process and what you can achieve. Many divorcees set unrealistic expectations, which can leave them feeling disappointed and frustrated.

Join our 12-week comprehensive divorce

planner and private community. Get expert guidance and support for planning and navigating difficult divorces. Choose different appointment types through the button below.

1-on-1 Coaching Sessions

Are you prepared to turn your pain into strength, your heartache into recovery, and your separation into a significant step forward?

Why most fail to be Empowered

In Divorce Navigation?

Lack of

Direction

Without a clear roadmap, it's easy to feel lost and unsure of what to do next. Many divorcees struggle to find the right direction, which can slow down the process and cause unnecessary stress.

Overwhelming

Emotions

Divorce is a stressful and emotional experience, and managing intense emotions can be exhausting. This often leads to feeling overwhelmed, which can make it difficult to navigate the divorce process.

Unrealistic

Expectations

Divorce is rarely easy, and it's important to have realistic expectations about the process and what you can achieve. Many divorcees set unrealistic expectations, which can leave them feeling disappointed and frustrated.

1-on-1 Coaching Sessions

Are you prepared to turn your pain into strength, your heartache into recovery, and your separation into a significant step forward?

Spiritual Awakening

Why do people in a breakup or divorce resist seeing the spiritual path to transform themselves?

Harmonious Co-Parenting

Co-parenting during and after a divorce can be challenging. This program guides you to find common ground, fostering a harmonious relationship that prioritizes the well-being of the children. By focusing on collaboration rather than conflict, you create a nurturing environment for your children to thrive.

Divorce Planning

Divorce is typically a painful, complex process involving emotional turmoil, legal challenges, and financial concerns. While a divorce attorney is essential for legal aspects, the emotional and spiritual journey is often overlooked.

Relationships

Effective communication is the cornerstone of healthy relationships. It involves not only speaking and listening but also understanding and empathizing with the other person's perspective.

Men's group coaching program

Empowering men to embrace authentic, conscious leadership and communication, free

from the constraints of past ego-driven narratives, to cultivate

harmony in relationships at home and at work.

Join us on this cohort of transformation!

Who This is For

  • Men seeking to elevate their leadership skills

  • Individuals yearning for more harmonious relationships

  • Those looking to break free from limiting beliefs and ego-driven behaviors

"If you think you can do a thing or think you can't do a thing, you're right."

- Henry Ford

Course Objectives

  • Cultivate authentic self-leadership devoid of ego's past narratives

  • Master conscious communication techniques

  • foster harmonious relationships at home and in the workplace

"You are the creator of your own reality."

- Abraham Hicks

The Benefits

  • Enhanced self-awareness and emotional intelligence

  • Improved communication leading to stronger relationships

  • A newfound sense of peace and harmony in your personal and professional life

"The space you create in your life through conscious living will bring you peace, joy, and freedom." -
- Joe Dispenza

Join our 12-week comprehensive divorce

planner and private community. Get expert guidance and support for planning and navigating difficult divorces.

Who is Sacred Cobra?

Meet Anthony Cortino

"I am passionate about empowering individuals to make the best decisions for their lives, and I believe that divorce can be a transformative opportunity for growth, healing, and new beginnings. As a divorce coach with over a 6 years of experience, I am committed to providing compassionate, expert guidance and support to every client."

Anthony 'Sacred Cobra' Cortino, Divorce & Relationship Coach, Ordained Minister, Reiki Master

Notice Your Divorce Signs From Universe

man and woman asking questions

The Power of Questions in Relationships: Respect and Understanding as Vital Elements

October 10, 20233 min read

The Power of Questions in Relationships: Respect and Understanding as Vital Elements

man and woman questioning

The concept of asking questions in a relationship is a powerful one—it fosters understanding, shows respect, and strengthens connections. However, the intent behind the questions and the way they are asked is critical. If someone is using questioning in an unhealthy manner—constantly seeking faults, examining every detail for inconsistency—it can create an atmosphere of mistrust rather than understanding.

Unhealthy Questioning: A Breeder of Mistrust in Relationships

In other words, they do not want to trust you and that is why they are questioning in this way.

Being honest in a relationship is vital, not simply to answer questions convincingly but to create an environment of sincerity and trust.

Using the statement, "If a man is honest he will welcome questions, but a liar will not," presents a rather simplistic view of honesty. It presupposes that someone who hesitates or blankly refuses to answer certain questions is dishonest.

However, it may also be indicative of a person's desire to maintain their own personal boundaries or their level of comfort with the topic of discussion.

Have you ever had your own boundary, and that is the reason you do not answer your partner's question?

The Transformative Impact of Mutually Respectful Communication in Relationships

In my professional experience, I've come across several situations where relationships have significantly improved through mutual respect, understanding, and a conscious deceleration of the questioning process.

Navigating Difficult Conversations: A Coaching Perspective

But...

If responses to questions are met with escalating anger or suspicion, it may be time to step back and reassess the situation. It might be beneficial to postpone the discussion until everyone involved can approach it with a calm and clear mindset.

As a divorce and co-parenting coach and spiritual awakening mentor, I with these difficult conversations. Whether it is preparing to have the divorce conversation with your spouse, choosing to be a safe and calm co-parent regardless of the other person's behavior, or expressing your desire to rebuild trust again with your lover, there is a better way to approach these talks without all the hostility that most choose to use in relationships.

This approach has shown its value countless times. Within this year alone, four couples heading for divorce managed to reconcile using these respectful techniques. Not only have several relationships been saved, but even in situations where couples have decided to part ways, this approach has led to more peaceful and amicable separations and amazing modeling for their young kids.

The Aftermath of Respectful Communication: Surprisingly Positive Outcomes

Staying curious and remembering to seek and listen to understand rather than only respond with your hard negative assumptions will change your life regardless of the final outcome in your relationships.

The Potency of Respectful Questioning in Strengthening Relationships

In conclusion, questions hold incredible potential to deepen relationships, but they need to be asked with care and respect—and with an intent to truly listen and understand, not to interrogate or accuse.

Because it's not about tripping someone up with a difficult question but about genuinely understanding them better.

Are you ready to change your life in the middle of the storm?

Your journey to understanding the power of respectful questioning is pivotal in navigating complex relationships, especially in divorce scenarios. Don't wait for the turbulence to subside; start taking control today. Click on the link provided in the comments to download my free divorce planner. It's time to embrace clarity and promote your well-being during this strenuous phase of life.

Let's discuss the one-on-one or group divorce coaching program tailored to meet your specific needs and help you emotionally navigate through every phase of your divorce and post-breakup journey. Start investing in your emotional well-being now to positively impact your future, the lives of your children, and yes, even your pocketbook. Your transformation begins here. Take a step towards a harmonious separation today.

DivorceSupport #Reconciliation #CoParenting #HealthyCommunication #RespectfulQuestioning #DivorceCoaching #EmotionalWellBeing #Relationships #SeparationJourney #TrustBuilding

www.sacredcobra.com for your free planner

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Anthony 'Sacred Cobra' Cortino

Divorce and Coparenting Coach

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man and woman asking questions

The Power of Questions in Relationships: Respect and Understanding as Vital Elements

October 10, 20233 min read

The Power of Questions in Relationships: Respect and Understanding as Vital Elements

man and woman questioning

The concept of asking questions in a relationship is a powerful one—it fosters understanding, shows respect, and strengthens connections. However, the intent behind the questions and the way they are asked is critical. If someone is using questioning in an unhealthy manner—constantly seeking faults, examining every detail for inconsistency—it can create an atmosphere of mistrust rather than understanding.

Unhealthy Questioning: A Breeder of Mistrust in Relationships

In other words, they do not want to trust you and that is why they are questioning in this way.

Being honest in a relationship is vital, not simply to answer questions convincingly but to create an environment of sincerity and trust.

Using the statement, "If a man is honest he will welcome questions, but a liar will not," presents a rather simplistic view of honesty. It presupposes that someone who hesitates or blankly refuses to answer certain questions is dishonest.

However, it may also be indicative of a person's desire to maintain their own personal boundaries or their level of comfort with the topic of discussion.

Have you ever had your own boundary, and that is the reason you do not answer your partner's question?

The Transformative Impact of Mutually Respectful Communication in Relationships

In my professional experience, I've come across several situations where relationships have significantly improved through mutual respect, understanding, and a conscious deceleration of the questioning process.

Navigating Difficult Conversations: A Coaching Perspective

But...

If responses to questions are met with escalating anger or suspicion, it may be time to step back and reassess the situation. It might be beneficial to postpone the discussion until everyone involved can approach it with a calm and clear mindset.

As a divorce and co-parenting coach and spiritual awakening mentor, I with these difficult conversations. Whether it is preparing to have the divorce conversation with your spouse, choosing to be a safe and calm co-parent regardless of the other person's behavior, or expressing your desire to rebuild trust again with your lover, there is a better way to approach these talks without all the hostility that most choose to use in relationships.

This approach has shown its value countless times. Within this year alone, four couples heading for divorce managed to reconcile using these respectful techniques. Not only have several relationships been saved, but even in situations where couples have decided to part ways, this approach has led to more peaceful and amicable separations and amazing modeling for their young kids.

The Aftermath of Respectful Communication: Surprisingly Positive Outcomes

Staying curious and remembering to seek and listen to understand rather than only respond with your hard negative assumptions will change your life regardless of the final outcome in your relationships.

The Potency of Respectful Questioning in Strengthening Relationships

In conclusion, questions hold incredible potential to deepen relationships, but they need to be asked with care and respect—and with an intent to truly listen and understand, not to interrogate or accuse.

Because it's not about tripping someone up with a difficult question but about genuinely understanding them better.

Are you ready to change your life in the middle of the storm?

Your journey to understanding the power of respectful questioning is pivotal in navigating complex relationships, especially in divorce scenarios. Don't wait for the turbulence to subside; start taking control today. Click on the link provided in the comments to download my free divorce planner. It's time to embrace clarity and promote your well-being during this strenuous phase of life.

Let's discuss the one-on-one or group divorce coaching program tailored to meet your specific needs and help you emotionally navigate through every phase of your divorce and post-breakup journey. Start investing in your emotional well-being now to positively impact your future, the lives of your children, and yes, even your pocketbook. Your transformation begins here. Take a step towards a harmonious separation today.

DivorceSupport #Reconciliation #CoParenting #HealthyCommunication #RespectfulQuestioning #DivorceCoaching #EmotionalWellBeing #Relationships #SeparationJourney #TrustBuilding

www.sacredcobra.com for your free planner

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Anthony 'Sacred Cobra' Cortino

Divorce and Coparenting Coach

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Divorce Decision Maker Mastery: Roadmap

Foundation of regulation

Acquire the skills to manage your emotions, grasp effective coping techniques, and gain confidence in dealing with the legal aspects of your divorce.

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Strategic Navigation

Navigate the divorce process with clarity and direction. Learn effective communication and problem-solving skills, and gain the knowledge and tools to advocate for your best interests.

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Empowered Recovery

Our final stage is about moving forward with your life. Gain the skills and resources you need to create a fulfilling new chapter, and connect with a supportive community of like-minded individuals.

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